Simplicity of Life
The simplicity of life depends on your choice of looking at things/issues simple or complicated. I prefer a simple but enjoyable life. I do not like to ponder too much on things that are beyond my control. Thinking or worrying doesn’t change the fact that the problem still exist. I rather spend time thinking of solving or alleviating the problem to the minumum.
To me, there are no right or wrong decisions, only appropriate and inappropriate decisions. A wrong decision at that point of time doesnt mean it will not become right as situation changes in the future. And vice versa. I feel that before any decision is make, it is vital to weigh the consequences of that outcome. I will think of how my decision is going to affect the other party, as the outcome that you want may not be what they want. The best decision will be made out of the many decisions base on the best outcome that I hoped to have for both parties. And if the outcome is not what I have wanted, I would not regret as I have tried my best. Rather than not deciding anything at all.
I do not like to leave too much room for regrets, as there are too many regrets in life. Many a times, I think we are responsible for the regrets in our life. Thus, I rather live life in a full manner now so as to lessen the regrets in the future.
My principle in life now is " Live life loving it, Live Learning to let go"
May 22nd, 2007 at 1:35 am
Yeah finally get to view ur blog properly. purple background hehs.. Mature pple do type differently. i have another older classmate, i sort of look up to her. Like u, she is quite mature and many times i saw gracefulness display in her. And i agree with u, many times pple will simply say “ï dont kw” for alot of things and many times these things are rather impt. They cannot be left unexplain, untold..A decision and answer has to come, it may be difficult but nevertheless it should not be left unanswer letting the person to wait in vain. Living life to the fullest and making it fun filled is one of my goals too, life is too short to be left with regrets and pain. Though sometimes it does happen and god knows why guess it is just to make us grow. I believe what goes around, comes around. Whatever goes up will eventually comes down.